Remember the days of big chunky statement necklaces and bold colorful baubles? I was never really into that sort of trend and always found myself gravitating towards simple dainty pieces and usually always in gold.
There are a few pieces from my childhood that my parents got me from trips to Italy, to my gold cursive necklace that I’ve had since I was born. And yes, it’s about as New York 1980s as you can imagine, and I love it.
Nowadays you can always catch me wearing a few gold dainty pieces like my “P” necklace layered up with others. Or just wearing one simple piece at a time.
Over the years I’ve found pieces I love from new-to-me jewelry brands. From trying to track down the perfect “P” necklace for my love of my dog Pork, to customizing diamond jewelry from old pieces I had laying around and just everyday gold jewelry to wear.
Here are some of my favorite pieces and brands I’m wearing and loving. Plus, all the pieces you usually see me wearing in my IG Stories and blog posts.
The Best Affordable Gold Jewelry
1. AUrate New York
I am loving the dainty fine jewelry pieces at AUrate New York. I had been on a hunt for a “P” necklace that was real gold and dainty enough to layer. There are so many pretty necklaces, bracelets, and more in their shop. I kind of want them all! After owning a few pieces from AUrate, fine jewelry and non, I can tell you their quality is fantastic. Big fan of this brand and will buy again.
$450 Diamond Initial Necklace
2. Mejuri Zodiac Necklace
I surprised myself when I found this brand through an Instagram ad and ended up buying not one but two things from their site. You may see me wearing this round gold necklace all the time and it’s my zodiac, Aquarius. It’s gold vermeil, which is a thick coating of gold over sterling silver. It’s not your standard gold plated that tends to chip and diminish more easily over time. I’ve had mine for years and never take it off and it still looks great. Vermeil definitely holds up a lot better than gold plated and love that there are so many options to choose from. It makes gold jewelry much more affordable.
$80 Zodiac Necklace
3. Mejuri Thumb Ring & Croissant Ring
Mejuri is such a great jewelry brand and I have a few other pieces from them. I wear a gold thumb ring every single day that I love. It’s thin, and simple – I love it. And I also picked up their popular croissant ring while visiting their shop in Soho. Highly recommend it if you’re in NYC, it’s such a cute store. So many beautiful and affordable pieces to shop.
Croissant Dome Ring
4. Madewell Earrings
No surprise here! I love all things Madewell and that also means their jewelry. I typically wear a lot of their hoop earrings. Their affordable price point and great quality make this a favorite spot to grab new pieces. Plus, they’re all super pretty. I’ve been living in their classic gold hoops (both sizes!) lately. The big hoops are definitely statement earrings!
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5. Taudrey Jewelry Nameplate Necklace
This is the nameplate I’ve had for years. We received these with our Instagram handles on it years ago at the 2nd Annual Blog Societies Conference (previously Southern Blog Society, boy how time flies!).
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6. Pierced Jewelry
I get quite a few questions about my piercings (you can check them all out in this post) from time to time. Specifically, my conch piercing. Many people just have a cuff which I may actually suggest doing. It’s an insanely painful piercing to not only pierce but also heal. As in, it took over 9 months and was not pretty or comfortable. A few years ago I switched out all my ear piercings from that high school sterling silver crap we all had and swapped them out for high-quality yellow gold. They look so much better and match the rest of my jewelry. I also think they’re a little more elevated and feel more grown up.
$12 Gold Ear Cuff
7. Gold Bracelets
The question I get asked the MOST about when it comes to jewelry is usually where are those gold chain bracelets from. I wear two gold bracelets every single day. One is from my Dad that I basically took from him and had it sized for me. No backsies! It’s a classic Italian style chain link bracelet. The other is a more dainty gold link bracelet that my Dad bought me while in Italy. Both are classics that you find EVERYWHERE in Italy. They mean so much to me because they were not only from my Dad, but speak to my Italian heritage as well.
Italian Link Bracelet
8. Signet Ring
One of my favorite childhood pieces of jewelry is a gold signet ring with a J on it. It’s the perfect pinky ring and an essential piece of jewelry to round out your collection. There are so many options to choose from now from affordable to more fine jewelry options that even have pretty gemstones in them.
Gold Signet Ring
9. Gold Huggies
This set of gold huggies have been game changer. I love to wear earrings but hate having to take them in and out all the time since I refuse to sleep in them. A huggie allows you to sleep in your earrings without being bothered by the backs of them. This set from Shashi is under $70 and love the three sizes you can choose from. Where one set, or two, they’re perfect!
Gold Huggies
10. Emerald Cut Diamond Studs
These are definitely a splurge, but if you’re looking for something classic that you’ll wear for years, this is it. Diamond stud earrings will run you up to $1,000 for a decent everyday size. The ones I wear the most are emerald cuts which is a nod to my Grandmother and her stunning emerald diamond ring. I got these through the Diamond Concierge which was such a fun experience and one I highly recommend. Read more about it here.
Diamond Studs
11. Diamond Necklace
As I’m sure many of you have old jewelry in your jewelry box that you never wear, I had a few pieces from an ex that I just did not like. I never wore the diamond earrings, and I had a necklace that was just not my style and in white gold. I decided to turn these 5 diamonds into something new and special. I used Kate the Diamond Concierge again for this and utilized her upcycle program. She basically turns the old jewelry you never wear into something new and amazing just for you. There’s a $97 upcycle consultation fee on top of the jewelry labor but you can waive this fee with code JESSICA97. This was such a cool experience and I love my new pieces she made which you can see here.
Diamond Necklace
12. Diamond Pinky Ring
After my beloved Boston Terrier, Pork, passed away I wanted to commemorate her with a piece of jewelry. In a fog of emotions, I headed to a local jewelry store to shop for a diamond pinky ring. I had been wanting one for a while and thought this would be a good reason to get one. I ended up doing a custom ring with 12 stones to represent the 12 years I spent with her. I even had them engrave her name on the inside. It means so much to me and I just love it.
Diamond Pinky Eternity Band
13. Jenny Bird Jewelry
I recently added some new pieces to my everyday gold jewelry from Jenny Bird. Really beautiful pieces at an affordable price. I have these squiggle earrings and these perfect lightweight hoops. I love the large size!
Use code INDIGO15 for 15% off your order.
14. Flat Back Earrings
For my lobe piercings, I have started to shop for flat back earrings (or nap earrings as you may have heard them be called). These are just what they sound like, the back is totally flat and there’s nothing poking you. I can’t sleep in any earring that isn’t. I’ve added a few flat back options to my jewelry box to keep in my second hole and sometimes in my first.
They are very hard to put in yourself, so I just head to my piercing studio to have them do it for a small fee. They also have tons of options at piercing studios, so you may want to stop there first.
How To Keep Your Necklaces From Tangling
The number one question I get asked in my DM’s besides what jewelry I’m wearing, is how do you keep your necklaces from tangling? And honestly, they are always a bit tangled!
I find myself readjusting them every day after a shower. And if I notice that my zodiac charm or P necklace has the clasp in the front, I just adjust. It’s a constant battle honestly, but they never get fully tangled that they’re knotted up.
You can try one of these necklace separator clasps. I’ve tried them before and I just don’t love them. Instead, I just adjust as I see them turn around and untangle them pretty much every morning. Because yes, I also sleep in just about all this jewelry minus my first hole unless it’s a flat back.
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